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Should You Tell a Friend if You Don't Like their Significant Other?

September 11, 2019 by Sara Woznicki in Dating, Leisure, Life In Your 20's, life lessons, Sara's Column, Social Media, Tweets and Mascara

Once upon a time, I went through a break-up. Slowly over time people began to slide in minor bits of feedback about what they didn’t like about him in conversations. And then every now and then, it wasn’t minor.

I kept asking why no one would say those things when we were together. I mean, you see red flags that I didn’t, and you just let me keep playing on the train tracks!? What’s the point of having friends if they won’t have your back?